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One afternoon...

(Based on true story)

One fine day, in the afternoon...

*found a dead cicak on the floor, which has decayed and turned into skeleton instead*











*thinking on what to do next*
Should I sweep it off the floor? ...I don't want to drag it around...










Should I mop it off the floor instead? ...eew! that would be even worst!










There's no way, I would use my hand to pick it up...











*throws baby wipe on it instead*
Now...what...?













*after hesitating way too long, decided to pick it up using hand*
*fingers felt crushing the bones*











*let it go quickly*














*paused, then decided to just pick it up and throw it away quickly*















Yeah...I hate cicak with all my body and soul...

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Day Seventeen - Things that bother you about him.

A late answer is late, I know. It has been a busy week afterall, so I didn’t get time to do the challenge until now. Anyway, let’s start!

Let’s see…I guess the first thing would be his indecisiveness. He can be difficult when he tries to decide something. It’s either because he’s a picky person or a Libra…maybe it’s a combination of both. On the other hand, I prefer to decide things quickly since I don’t like waiting too long. So it can be hard to deal with this.

The second would be a silly thing honestly. It’s how he likes to wake me up early in the morning. I’m not a morning person to begin with, so it can be bothering when he tries to wake me up early. I actually understand why it’s better to wake up early and all. But it’s just not an easy thing to do that….


The third one might be silly as well, but it bothers me when he is far less ticklish than me…like far far far LESS ticklish. So whenever I decide to do a tickle war, it’s hard to win the war. 


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Day Sixteen - Things you two have in common.

I know this is supposed to be daily challenge...but I guess when I read the question, an idea popped in my head. But since I couldn't do it in weekdays (due to work etc), I finally finished it today. Well, here you are...all the things that we two have in common...

...or more like what we both like...


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Day Fifteen - What do his friends think of you?

After reading the question...














Giving some time to think of the answer...










After thinking for some minutes...













In the end...












And yes, I'm being honest here. Seeing that we started the whole relationship via online, so I haven't met his friends in real life. I just know them from the stuff that my husband said. Yes, this might sound weird and all, but I guess it's just how it is if you're starting your relationship from cyberworld.


C'est la vie~

Well hopefully one day I could meet them all. It would be interesting to see their reactions and what they think of me.

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Day Fourteen - What do you think of his friends?

In some ways, I feel bad after reading the question. It’s because…I don’t know how to answer this question. After not knowing much about his family, this time I don’t know much about his friends either. This is why I feel bad for not knowing the answer.

I know he has one best friend, who is a girl. It’s interesting to know this, since I found it kinda rare to find a guy who has a girl as a best friend. As for the best friend, she can be as sarcastic as he can…but in a girl level. So in some ways, she can be scarier…I guess. I remember the first time I talked to her…and it was an interview. I felt if it were a real-life interview, I don’t think I would be able to do it.


Anyway, other than her, he lives in a house with 3 other people. Two are girls and one is a guy. Other than that, he has some friends in inet; I know some of them since I am also friends with them. So yah...there you go~



P.S: Happy wedding miniversary sweety~ too bad we can't celebrate it together ne? Hopefully we can celebrate wedding anniversary instead. Love ya mucho~

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Day Thirteen - How often do you see each other?

Seeing that we started the relationship the relationship via online, and till now we’re still separated with distance, so we don’t really see each other too often. We wish we could do that, and hopefully we’ll be able to do it sooner.

There is skype and webcam indeed. We would spend hours and hours, chatting in skype. Infact we did talked via skype for 18 hours straight. So far it's the longest record that we had. And I'm glad, we never get bored or run out of topics to talk about. But when it comes to using the webcam, in some ways, technology isn’t really in our sides. There’s always technical problem here and there. It’s either the internet breaks down, skype being retarded or blackout. In the end, we can’t really see each other too often.

Due living in two different continents (Europe and Asia) and not to mention different strength of currency, we can’t really see each other in real life too often. There was three times where he visited me and the last one when we finally tied the knot. The last trip was so far the best one for me. It’s because we could spend time together, in two months. Eventhough there were little bumps here and there, but I had a lot of fun with him. So when the two months was over, it was so hard to let him go.

Hopefully the next trip would be the last one for us to be separated again. I really miss him a lot.



P.S to Mr. Troll: Happy relationship miniversary sweety~ we have reached our 2nd episode (a.ka months) in our 5th season. I really miss you ow so much. Hope to be with you again, soon~


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Day Twelve - Your song?



To be honest, eventhough we both like music, we don’t have any songs that can be considered as our song.  We sometimes like to share some songs, usually in different genre. But most of the songs that we like to share are usually jazzy music.

Anyway, I guess we have two songs that are kinda special to us. The songs were “Human Hands” by Sondre Lerche and “Stars are Blind” by Paris Hilton. The reason why this song is special is because we did sing it to each other. I sang to him “Stars are Blind”, and he sang me “Human Hands”.  Honestly, I don’t remember why I chose the song. Probably it’s because of the lyrics. As for him, I think he said the lyrics resembled the situation that I had back then.

Hmmm…yah, that’s it pretty much~


P.S: not too interesting post, isn’t it?

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Day Eleven - Ten things you love about him.

So far this is the hardest question. Not because of the questions, but more because of how to answer them. As much as it may sound cliche, but there are so many things I love about him. So it was kind of hard to choose just the ten of them (yes, I know...it's so cliche etc...). Anyway, ready?



Here you go~

1. His intelligence
It’s always interesting to have conversation with him, because we can talk on everything. From simple topic to serious-business topic, he has a wide range of knowledge and interesting point of views. And he never boasts on his intelligence, instead he would be humble about it. If he doesn’t know on a certain thing, he would ask and let you, who know more, do the talking instead.

2. His wittiness
He knows how to play with words, and how to respond to different characteristic. That’s why I think he is witty. He can persuade people to see things differently, just from his words. If you’re on his good side, he knows how to charm you. But if you’re on his bad side, he knows how to ‘crush’ you without lifting any fingers. Though being said that, he won’t misuse his skill. He knows when he has to do it or not.

3. His hair and eyes.
Despite the sucky pale-skin, he has nice red hair and interesting green eyes. I’m always fascinated with his red hair, especially when it changes its brightness. The more sunshine it gets, the shinier it will be. It’s always entertaining to see the changes every time he visits me. Other than that, his eyes also can change colours. He told me when he was a kid, his eyes were blue. But as he grew up, his eyes’ colour gradually changes to green. Nowadays, his eyes can still change colours. Sometimes they can be green, grey or bluish-grey. It’s interesting, no?

4. His attitude and personality
Most people that I know think him as a troll, though I guess I can see that. But to me it’s one of the things that I love about him. Not being the troll part, but his attitude in facing stuff. He’s not a bully, but he won’t stand still if he notices someone disturbs his phase. Too bad not many people, whom I know, would like to spend some time to know him more. Because behind the rough façade that he has, he is actually a sweet guy. He is a caring, patient, good-listener, totally wonderful and great guy.

5. His rants
He even thinks I’m weird for loving this. Since he is a talker, so he likes to rant a lot. He won’t rant just on anything, but usually on some stuff. For some people, his rant may sound boring. But, to be honest, to me, all his rants sound funny. Sometimes just by him ranting, it will make me laugh. I guess in some ways, his rant tickles my funny bone.

6. His fashion-style
He may not be the trendiest guy in the world, but his fashion sense suits me well. He likes to be neat, and he really means it. He might wear shirt and jeans, but he would make sure the shirt and jeans are neat and clean. Yes, this may sound silly…but I’ve found several cases where some guys who just don’t care about their appearances. Other than that, he also knows what clothes to wear in different occasions. Eventhough some may think his fashion-sense is prude, but it really suits my own taste.

7. His jokes
Some of his jokes may hit or miss, but they are all still funny to me. There are times where his jokes can be dark and depressing as well. If he starts to make those kind of jokes, I couldn’t laugh at all to his jokes. But most of the times, his jokes are funny.

8. His charm
He knows how to talk, how to listen, how to make jokes and how to impress in style, tell me if he’s not a charmer? As I was saying before, he knows how to play around with words. And he also knows how to use them very well. Afterall, he always charms me and makes me melted with his words.

9. His mind
He is an open-minded person, and that’s another thing that makes me love him. He’s always up for new ideas, thoughts and point of views, eventhough it’s just silly, random or weird. For him, it’s always interesting to know more stuff…especially if it’s from me.

10. His love
Last but not least, how he loves me. All this time, I was living in an insecure situation where I couldn’t love myself. The reason why I couldn’t love myself was because of my body. Being not a slim girl, I kept founding rejection from guys. I always blamed myself for being not slim, when I should have thought that it was those guys loss for not wanting to know me deeper than my skin. And it is him who took that chance. Not only he loves me sincerely, he also boosted my self-confidence and made me love myself for it is. He is the one who supports me in any ways, making me feel believing myself more and more.


Well, there you go~ dududu~



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Day Ten - Why is your relationship different than others?


Trying to find how different our relationship with others, in some ways, is kinda hard. We both love and care each other very much, just like other couples. We also have long lasting long-distance relationship, which eventhough not many LDR couples could do it, there are some who could do it even longer than us. So that’s not really special or different.


Hmmm...I guess if I think more about it, the reason that our relationship is different than others is because of many coincidences that happened between us. The whole stuffs were and still are interesting yet unexplainable. But most definitely, they were the ones that tightened our feelings and minds on the relationship.

The first one would be coincidences that happened before we were in relationship. From all the coincidences that happened to us, I guess the one that was really memorable and special would be when we finally talked. As I told it before in how we got to talk, we met up in a forum. Not until I decided to be a part of the forum crew, that I had the chance to get his MSN username. ..vice versa.

But even after having each other’s MSN usernames, we didn’t talk to each other. The funny thing is…he kept adding my MSN username every time he changed his. Until now, I still find that was weird since it wasn’t really him to do that yet he did that to me. After a year or so of doing that, then happen the wallpaper incident. It just so happened he shown off all these wallpapers that he has in a different forum, where I joined too though I didn’t know that he joined as well (another coincidence). So when I was looking for the wallpaper, I decided to ask him. Well I’m sure you know what happened next.

There were other coincidences that happened in our 5 years of relationship, but I guess the latest one happened before our wedding day. It happened after we got back from our date. I made a mistake on being bad mood, which made him bad mood...which is even worse than me. We didn’t have any argument, just being silent at each other. It was unpleasant indeed. Later on, I felt guilty and tried to apologise. But he didn’t say anything. In the end I asked him, whether he wanted me to go instead (we were in his room at that time). Surprisingly he said yes, he preferred me to go home instead. I was shocked and hurt. But when I walked outside of his room, I realised it was raining cats and dogs. I also just noticed that I didn’t bring my umbrella, especially when it was supposed to be dry season where there is less rain. Being sad and hurt, I didn’t know what to do. So I decided to go back to his room, and told him I couldn’t go home because of rain.

To make it short, because of the rain, we patched our relationship again. I told him I was sorry and promised not to do it again. On the other hand, he felt bad as well for letting me go. Later, we found out that the rain has stopped right after we forgave each others.  I guess it was just another coincidence that happened to us. Until now, I’m still grateful and thankful for every coincidence that happened between us. It felt as if someone or something really wants us to be together, and that someone/something really shown us the way.

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Day Nine - Inside joke!

In some ways, this question is kinda hard. I know that we have some inside jokes, where we like to use them at each other. But when I try to remember the jokes, I can’t really remember them. I guess it’s one of those muscle memory thingie.

So far I only remember two inside jokes that we like to use. The first one would be, the good with the hands joke. The joke started when my mom was teaching him how to weave ketupat. Apparently he was good in weaving the ketupat. Noticing that, my mom praised him by saying that he’s good with his hands. When I heard that, I almost burst out my drink while he was giving me this…teasing look. The reason why we did that was because before that I did praise him for being good with his hands. But…it was for a different thing, not related to weaving…most definitely….

you don't want to know...dududu~

After that, the joke happened again when we were in family trip. He was helping my aunt and mom, cooking fried banana in the kitchen. As he was helping them, my aunt praised him for being good with his hands. Again after my aunt said that, he looked at me teasingly while saying, “your aunt said, I was good with my hands.” I couldn’t help it to giggle. Ever since that, we like to use that joke for time to time.

As for second joke, it’s the cherry popper joke. Maybe some people will get this one, since it’s not that subtle. It all started when we had dinner. Every time I had a drink with cherry in it, he would ask for the cherry, since I never eat it. Now at that time, I ordered a drink which apparently has cherry in it. And like usual he asked whether he could have the cherry. So I let him having it. While he was eating the cherry, I joked around on how he likes to pop cherries indeed. The reason why I joke that…was because…well…he also…

Ya know, nevermind~ *walk away awkwardly

Look! dancing cat!

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Day Eight - What does his family think of you?


... *toobadnocrows


Seeing that I don’t know his family; so I don’t think his family knows me either.

There you go.

(yeah, this is so far the shortest answer indeed...)

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Day Seven - What do you think of his family?

To be honest, I don’t know much about his family…so I can’t give any comments on what I think of his family. All I know about his family is…he doesn’t have a big family like me. He has parents and a younger brother. As for extended family, he has three cousins, grandparents from dad’s side, and grandmother from mom’s side. Unlike me, he doesn’t have a close relationship with his family relatives. I guess it’s the whole different culture and all.


In some ways, I feel weird for not knowing much about his family. Maybe someday I can get to know them…at least some of them more.

P.S: short answer is kinda short. Combination of being sick and not knowing much is perfect for this short answer. So I apologise.

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Day Six - His nickname?

He doesn’t have a lot of nicknames actually. Other than the usual “sweety”, “dear”, “honey” etc, there are other nicknames that I gave especially for him. And those nicknames are Mr. Kay and Mr. Troll.

The first nickname that I gave him was Mr. Kay. I know it seems simple, and it is a simple nickname. It was a combination of ‘Mr.’ title and his first name. The reason why I gave him the title was because I know he wants to be a teacher. I gave the nickname before we were in relationship, so I was expected him being annoyed with it. Infact, he didn’t feel annoyed with it, but not saying he actually liked it either. At first, he didn’t really like how I called him using ‘Mr.’ because he thinks it’s too formal. But I kept calling him using that nickname, saying that it’s a special nickname that I gave for him. In the end, he gave up and let me call him with that.

Then one day something surprising happened. While we were chatting, suddenly he called my name using ‘Ms.’ in front. I was really surprised when he did that to me. In some ways, the whole stuff felt like a special scene in those dating simulation games. It’s the scene where the guy/girl decided to call u differently, in a good way. Usually if this happens, that means the guy/girl has a special feeling towards you…or at least he feels closer to you.

But at first I didn’t believe that he feels closer to me, so I thought maybe he actually wanted to get even. Since I call him using Mr, so he would call me using Ms as well. But after thinking more about it, if that’s the case…then the whole stuff would turn into flirting. And my thought was correct. From there, without realising it, we started to flirt at each other.


Until now I still call him using Mr in front of his name. Sometimes I call him ‘Mr. Troll’ as well, since people used to call him a Troll. Funny thing is…even my family starts to call him using Mr. Maybe I should ask them to stop it. Afterall it is my special nickname to him.

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Day Five - Your favourite gift he gave you?

Maybe this sounds cliché, but I love every gifts that he gave to me. Even the bunny ears hair band…and yes he did give me a bunny ears hair band, silly yet cute. Though he should buy me cat ears instead, after all I'm a cat rather than a bunny.

I has computer-nyaa~

Hmmm…I guess if I could choose one favourite gift…hmmm…yeah, it’s hard.  Let’s see…I guess if I have to choose one, it would be the pendant necklace. The pendant is shaped of heart with diamonds on its surface. At first I thought those diamonds were fake ones, since I know diamonds are expensive and all. Other than that, I never expected that he would buy me real diamond pendant. It was my mom who told me that the diamonds are real. According to her if the diamonds weren’t real; they won’t be as glitter as the real ones. After knowing that, I was really surprised. When I told him about it, he just laughed.

As for necklace, he bought me a different necklace than the one that came with the pendant. Both the necklace and the pendant are made of silver. He decided to buy me a white gold necklace instead. He said the reason is because he knows I like white gold instead yellow gold. But of course white gold necklace and diamonds encrusted pendant are very expensive. So what he did, he just bought white gold necklace for the replacement of the silver necklace. It was very sweet.


I guess the biggest reason why I consider it as my favourite, it’s because of the reason that he gave me. When I asked him, why he chose the necklace, his answer was very sweet. “The heart represents my heart which I gave you to keep. And the diamonds represent all the reasons why I love you,” he said. And I melted after he said that. Ain't he the sweetest~?

Kyaaaaa~ *can'thandleallthesweetness

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Day Four - Your first kiss?

Hmmm…this is a personal thing. So no long answer or detail on it. But one thing for sure…it wasn't a romantic one.

When it comes to first kiss, it’s always portrayed in this romantic sweet scene. But I guess it’s not like that on my end. Not that I’m complaining, it was still a sweet one. Anyway, the kiss happened on his first visit meeting me in real life. I don’t really remember the exact date, but it happened in his room.

Honestly, I kinda forgot how it started, but I remember that it all started when I was curious about it. I think I told him about doing the ‘challenge’, and that is the kiss. Before meeting up, we talked about it and started to call it the challenge.


Anyway, after saying that I wanted to do the challenge, he made me sure that I really wanted to do the challenge. And of course I told him that I was sure about it. After saying that, we did it. Though apparently, at first he thought of making it romantic and sweet at all. But I guess my curiosity got the most of me. Still I don’t regret it…because it was a very nice kiss.
I feel embarrased now...

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Day Three - Your first memory with him?

Honestly this is kind of confusing. If it’s the first memory that I had of him, then it must be the first time when I knew about him. At first I knew him not in a good way. Back then, I was a part of the forum crew where we met. In that forum, I almost never heard any good opinions on him. So I thought he was a troll, dickhead or something like that. But it doesn’t mean that there was nobody would tell good opinions on him. There were some people who had good opinions on him, but not many.

But the one memory that made me interested with him…was when we had a group convo in MSN with other members of the crew. He was the only one who could stand up and stated his own opinion, and wasn’t being politically correct at all. Eventhough everyone else hated his guts and were ganged up to ignore him, he couldn’t care less.

That was his attitude alright~

I was impressed with him. Before that, there was one time where he cracked a non-politically correct joke in the group convo. Some were not impressed, but there were few who laughed on the joke. And I was one of them. Honestly, it was a funny joke. 

Until now, he still likes to crack up some jokes, and some of them aren’t politically correct but they’re still funny. After getting lots of misunderstanding about him, I’m glad I decided to get to know him more. Behind that troll attitude, there is a very sweet, caring, wonderful and amazing guy after all.

Love and miss him ever so much~

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Day Two - How did he ask you to be his?

(this would be a long answer...so brace yourself!)

For this one, it happened kinda surprising…kinda. To be honest, neither of us thought far about it. We really love our conversations; we like our compatibilities; and of course we like the time that we have spent so far.

The whole confession happened not in a romantic way, ow not at all. And it has a sorta different story from my side and his side. From my side, it all started from a friend’s confession. She suddenly asked me whether it was okay to approach him since she had a crush on him. Before she asked me the question, I always thought I didn’t have a feeling or whatsoever. But the question made me think…”do I really not have a feeling at all at him? Or I actually do?” And apparently the answer was, yes…I do have a feeling for him.

After knowing that, I told my friend that I don’t think it’s okay for her to make the approach, because I just realised that I actually like him. Then I asked her not to develop a deeper feeling toward him. Now thinking about it, I guess was being selfish. I should have let her develop the feeling and we should have competed fairly. But to be honest, I was feeling totally insecure back then.

So when I noticed my friend was still making an approach toward him, I was upset. I asked her why she did that, when I’ve asked her not to. She answered that it’s hard to dismiss a feeling, after you have it. I was really upset, and I told her she could go approach him if she wanted to. After that I decided to log off from MSN (back then we used it a lot). I even had a thought of not going online anymore. But then a thought popped in my head, I won’t give up without a fight.


In the end, I decided to go back online. Right after I got back online, he started the chat. When we chatted, the chat was kinda awkward. Honestly, I was worried. I had a thought that he was about to reject me or something. Until he suddenly became quiet after I asked him a question. I was really worried, but I was prepared for the worst. And when he finally talked again, I was surprised. He confessed to me that he has feeling towards me as well, a special feeling. I never knew that he would have the same feeling with me, when I thought he might choose my friend (whom I think prettier and better than me). After he confessed to me, he then asked me to be his girlfriend and made me the happiest girl in the world…ever.

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Day One - Where did you meet?

We met in cyberworld actually, and it was in an anime-manga forum called The Evil Empire. The first time we met, we didn't talk to each other. Not until a year after that, we talked...and it all started because of desktop wallpaper.

At that time, I wanted a desktop wallpaper but I couldn't find it anywhere. I noticed that he knows sites to find desktop wallpapers. In the end, I decided to start a conversation with him. At first I felt bad, since I had never talked to him before and now I actually wanted to ask him for a help. But he was nice and helpful, saying that he would help me to find the wallpaper.


In the end, to show my gratitude, I decided to have more conversations with him. Until now, I still enjoy our conversation.

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30 Days Boyfriend (I mean Husband) Challenge

I know this may be late, but I’m going to try the 30 days boyfriend challenge thingie. Hopefully I can do this for each days~

Here goes nothing, the 30 days boyfriend husband challenge!

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And here's for smokers who dislike the pollution...


I present this video to my fellow colleague, who smokes yet complaining about the pollution in here. I still regretted that I didn't speak out my mind when I heard him complaining about the pollution. Seriously, have you noticed the hypocrisy in there? Well, guess not! 

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