Trying to find how different our relationship with others,
in some ways, is kinda hard. We both love and care each other very much, just
like other couples. We also have long lasting long-distance relationship, which
eventhough not many LDR couples could do it, there are some who could do it
even longer than us. So that’s not really special or different.
Hmmm...I guess if I think more about it, the reason that our
relationship is different than others is because of many coincidences that
happened between us. The whole stuffs were and still are interesting yet
unexplainable. But most definitely, they were the ones that tightened our feelings
and minds on the relationship.
The first one would be coincidences that happened before we
were in relationship. From all the coincidences that happened to us, I guess
the one that was really memorable and special would be when we finally talked. As
I told it before in how we got to talk, we met up in a forum. Not until I decided
to be a part of the forum crew, that I had the chance to get his MSN username.
..vice versa.
But even after having each other’s MSN usernames, we didn’t
talk to each other. The funny thing is…he kept adding my MSN username every time
he changed his. Until now, I still find that was weird since it wasn’t really
him to do that yet he did that to me. After a year or so of doing that, then
happen the wallpaper incident. It just so happened he shown off all these
wallpapers that he has in a different forum, where I joined too though I didn’t
know that he joined as well (another coincidence). So when I was looking for
the wallpaper, I decided to ask him. Well I’m sure you know what happened next.
There were other coincidences that happened in our 5 years
of relationship, but I guess the latest one happened before our wedding day. It
happened after we got back from our date. I made a mistake on being bad mood,
which made him bad mood...which is even worse than me. We didn’t have any argument,
just being silent at each other. It was unpleasant indeed. Later on, I felt
guilty and tried to apologise. But he didn’t say anything. In the end I asked
him, whether he wanted me to go instead (we were in his room at that time). Surprisingly
he said yes, he preferred me to go home instead. I was shocked and hurt. But when
I walked outside of his room, I realised it was raining cats and dogs. I also
just noticed that I didn’t bring my umbrella, especially when it was supposed
to be dry season where there is less rain. Being sad and hurt, I didn’t know
what to do. So I decided to go back to his room, and told him I couldn’t go
home because of rain.
To make it short, because of the rain, we patched our
relationship again. I told him I was sorry and promised not to do it again. On the
other hand, he felt bad as well for letting me go. Later, we found out that the
rain has stopped right after we forgave each others. I guess it was just another coincidence that happened
to us. Until now, I’m still grateful and thankful for every coincidence that
happened between us. It felt as if someone or something really wants us to be
together, and that someone/something really shown us the way.
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